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In Your Fifties and Single?

By Karen DeArmond-Gardner – Being single in your fifties is interesting, to say the least. The rules have changed a bit since I was in
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Norma-Jean, My Mother-in-Law

By Carol Doyel – Marilyn Monroe Okay, Marilyn Monroe was not my mother-in-law, but my mother-in-law’s name is Norma Jean. However, she goes by Norma. In
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Life Rearranged

By Jesi Steiber – Originally published at mypurposenow.wordpress.com. Mealtime with the four year old has become quite a challenge. I make dinner, he tells me
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Lessons from my Mom, Lessons to my Daughter

By Sharon Hurley Hall – We older parents do a lot of analyzing and reflecting on parenting – at least, that’s what I’ve found. Get
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Snoopy to the Rescue – How Caregivers Can Use Pet Therapy to Care for Their Loved One

By Sherri Snelling – My favorite cartoonist the late Charles Schulz of Peanuts fame wrote that, “Happiness is a warm puppy.” I wonder if he
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Are “The Five Big D’s” Hindering Your Joy?

By Sheryl Young – At some time or another, each of us might struggle with an unfulfilled dream, an empty nest, wayward children, or life
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Glory in Slowing

By Sandra Ford Walston, The Courage Expert – Valuing your spirit requires you to connect to your spiritual journey and recognize the element of time.
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Could Low Self Esteem be Holding You Back?

By Sandy Abell, MS, LPC, ACC – When I was a new therapist in a social service agency, I had the degree and license to
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Diane Tesch, A Royal Mom

By Nancie Carmichael –  “A hundred years from now it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in,
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What’s in a Hug?

By Laura Petherbridge – Judy’s hugs have changed recently. My friend no longer offers a brief squeeze, she now holds on tight, and whispers words
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Mother’s Hands

By Nancie Carmichael – There was a story on Good Morning America this morning on the latest beauty craze—how to make your hands not look
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Who’s Really Teaching Your Grandchildren?

By Max Elliot Anderson – My wife and I became first time grandparents on January 23 of this year. Later this summer, our daughter and
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If Ever I Have Alzheimer’s…

Submitted by Alice Burron –  If ever I have Alzheimer’s . . . Remember that it’s a disease. I had no control over it. Remember
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Soul Food: More than Meal Delivery for Seniors, Caregivers, Volunteers

By Sherri Snelling – March is National Nutrition Month, and while it is important for all of us to check on how well we are
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Senior Housing: Finding the Right Nursing Home

By James Giles – Being a full-time caregiver for a family member is stressful. There are an overwhelming amount of appointments, prescription management issues and
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A Parent’s Guide to Living with Adult Children

By Amandah Tayler Blackwell – What happens when adult children and their family (pets too) move back home because of divorce, separation, health issues, or job
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Boundaries, Fences and Margins

By Sandra Bennett – For most of us, life is crazy busy but, here’s the secret…life is only as crazy busy as we choose and
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When Domestic Violence Matures

By Tonya Genison-Prince – Wearing sophistication, Ella, a woman in her 60s walked into the domestic violence office just as reluctantly as every younger woman
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How “Love and Respect” Changed Our Marriage

By Anita Estes – Less than five years ago, divorce loomed on the horizon for me after thirty years of trying to make the marriage
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Caregiving At the Oscars® – 1st Annual CARER Awards℠

By Sherri Snelling – For as long as I can remember I have been in love with the movies. Movies are magic come to life.
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The Only Pure Joy

By Patty Mason – At eighteen, I saw the world from a twisted perspective. I was headed in a new direction, and all too happy
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Life’s Lessons Come Wrapped in Many Packages

By Barbara Briggs Ward – Life’s lessons can come in ways we don’t expect them to. They come at any time, even when we think
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Is Your Grandchild A Struggling, Reluctant Reader?

By Max Elliot Anderson – As a child, I never liked to read. When I mention this to someone today, I can anticipate the reaction.
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The Power of Our Words

By Edwige Gilbert – Our ability to think and express ourselves in words is one of the most powerful “tools” we possess. There are two
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This Valentine’s Gift “Getting”

By Rosalinda Randall – Ah, Valentine’s Day; a day of high expectations, especially from women. Can the emotion that Valentine’s Day seems to evoke, be
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Celebrating Valentine’s Day Every Day

By Pat Stockett Johnston – How a Retired Couple Celebrates Valentine’s Day All Year Long- After being retired for several years, my husband and I
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Beth Moore: Mr. Sun (LIFE Today / James Robison)

Beth tells the funny story of her grandson with Mr. Sun and Mr. Moon to illustrate the difference between harmless fairy tales and damaging lies.

National Marriage Week USA Feb. 7-14

Together For Marriage Marriage works. It makes people happier, live longer, and build more economic security. Children with married parents perform better in school. Read
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What is a Patient Advocate?

By Rhonda Caudell – In simple terms, “Patient” implies someone who is sick or ill. “Advocate” is defined in the World English Dictionary as someone
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Your Best Place

By Nancie Carmichael – Funny how some things stick in your mind. I was 23 and a young mom of two, and my husband had
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Be Childlike and Play!

By Joy Silha – My intention for 2012 is to “Be Childlike and Play!” It sort of came to me. I was creating a vision
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“Affluenza”-An Affluent Disease or Temporary Condition?

By Penelope Lemov – They are a two-car family living in a comfortably affluent neighborhood. With her college-sophomore son home for the summer, a friend
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Five Reasons to Unearth Your Dreams in your Fifties

By Anita Agers-Brooks – I grew up in a house full of artists. Mediocre they are not. My mom, my sisters, my brother – they
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Seeing Yourself at Midlife

By Denise LaFrance – How many of us have taken off our glasses and looked in the mirror, examining the laugh lines that frame our
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The Issue of Choice…Choices of the Heart

By Carolyn Henderson – A teacher friend of ours raised his children with the concept of choices, as in, “That was a bad choice, son.” “Do
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Rebuild

By Vicki Norris – Are things falling apart around you? Or, does it seem like your foundation could use some shoring up? The times we
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How to Keep the Promise We Make To Ourselves This Year

Answer: One Resolution – 52 Chances to Make It Work – Me Time Monday℠ for Caregivers By Sherri Snelling – Ahhh the New Year is
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A Child of Divorce – at 49

By Sharon Greenthal – This past weekend I went to a bridal shower for my mother. At seventy-something, she is remarrying after nearly 30 years
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The Importance of Relationships

By Josephine Lalwan – I started to write a few new years’ resolutions or intentions, the usual things, more exercise, look after self better plus
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Woman-to-Woman Friendships: A Treasure beyond Measure

By Grace Fox – “What do you mean—you don’t have any close friends?” asked Gene, my husband of four months. “What about me? I’m your
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RESCUE ME!

By Deb DeArmond – I haven’t had a real job in years. Or at least that’s what my kids used to say. You know –
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Renew

By Vicki Norris – Renew means to begin or take up again, to bring something back to a former state, or to revive. To renew
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Baby Boomer Grandparents — Like everything else, we do it our way

By Carolyn Henderson – There’s dried fettuccini on the bathroom floor, which is a variation from the usual wet towels, but this time it’s not
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Ring in the New Year with Relationship Resolutions

By Anita A. Chlipala – Lose weight. Check. Quit smoking. Check. Improve my relationship. Che…eee, wait. Never thought of making your relationship part of your
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Attitude of Gratitude Brings Abundance Your Way

By Carrie Saba – Would you like to feel really good about your life and have more abundance? One way to get started is to
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The secret to keeping your resolution for a CHANGE

By Edwige Gilbert – Every year on December 31st, people all over the world make New Year’s resolutions. Millions of people wake up thinking, “This
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Reese’s Accident Sheds Light on Older Drivers and Technology That Can Help Keep Us Safe

By Sherri Snelling – Recently, Reese Witherspoon showed her compassion by announcing she would not press charges against the older driver who hit the Academy
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Life on Purpose

By Dr. Jo Anne White – Joy is found in simple pleasures. Acknowledge those moments when joy is present before they slip away. You may
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Nana’s Cookies

By Laura Petherbridge – The supermarket offered a plethora of choices, but my eye caught the brown package on the top shelf. The sight instantly
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It’s a Photo Frame! It’s A Printer! It’s a PC! It’s a Phone! Check out This Holiday Season’s Tech Gadgets for Grandparents

By Sherri Snelling – If you are a Boomer like me, you will remember the hit 60s TV show Get Smart where agent Maxwell Smart uses
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Eight Ways to Beat the Blues at Christmas

By Poppy Smith – Instead of a houseful of kids and their little ones running around laughing, crying, playing with toys and sneaking treats, this
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The Gift of Kindness

By Dr. Jo Anne White –   In the midst of changing times and uncertainty, it’s necessary to shift our focus, taking stock of what’s
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The Joy of being Present this Christmas

By Donna Ryan – This time of year with all the hustle and bustle of the  holiday season I am sure most people would agree
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Have You Been Shaped by Elderly Adults from Your Past?

By Rhonda Caudell RN, CMM – The generations of mothers behind me, shaped who I am today. I treasured my time with my great grand
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“Real” Blessings: It’s a Wonderful Life

By Deb DeArmond – Seneca Falls isn’t the only community paying tribute this year to the holiday movie, “It’s a Wonderful Life.” In recognition of
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The Sadness of Holidays

By Linda Menesez – Do you ever walk down neighborhood streets at night, and think about the warm glowing scenes you see through the uncovered
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A Creative Christmas

By Barb Franzen – What are we searching for come Black Thursday? Is any of it genuinely lasting as in the memories that come from
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Handling the Holidays During Loss or Grief

By Laura Petherbridge – October through December can be an excruciating time of year for those who have experienced a loss. In addition to the
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Does Divorce Make My Child Irritable at Holidays?

By Dr. Linda Mintle – A reader asks: Instead of being happy about the holidays, my 11 year old seems irritable and tired and doesn’t
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Empty Nesters… Once Again

By Deb DeArmond – Today is a different kind of day in our house. For the first time in 14 months, I will awaken to
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My Christmas Angel

By Barbara Briggs Ward – Whenever someone learns my father passed away close to Christmas a few years back the reaction is usually the same.
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Home for the Holidays–How to Have the C-A-R-E Conversation℠

By Sherri Snelling – Life is a voyage that is homeward bound. –Herman Melville This holiday season, many of us will be heading home. Back
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You Never Know What’s Right Around the Corner!

By Linda Menesez – My husband and I were out enjoying nature the other morning, and it made me think about how we see life. We
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Finding Balance During Stressful Times

By Ashley Barnes – I started a new job recently. I had been unhappy and unchallenged in my last position for a while and I
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How to Combine Celebration and Sorrow

By Beth Havey – Most of us are familiar with the downside of the coming holidays: if there is sorrow in life it’s hard to
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Finding Love Again at Age 50

By Marta Perrone – What is it like to live in a marriage where when you slip into the bed covers at night, you cling
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The Surprising Secret Of Happiness As Shared By The Happiest People On The Earth

By Shahina Lakhani – Today’s article is based on a book I recently read titled “Thrive Finding Happiness The Blue Zone Way.” We are going to
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This Great Ship Called Life

By Janice Hope – “When a great ship is in harbor and moored, it is safe, there can be no doubt. But that is not
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Cherish the Gift You Already Have

By Dr. Linda Mintle – For years, my children did not know there was a large shopping bag overstuffed with presents secretly stashed away in
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Walking with My Mother Back through Time

By Linda Menesez – I sit in the middle of such a familiar room, and yet everything feels different. Everything has changed!  I’m at my
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Alone For the Holidays?

By Lori Latimer – In late September, I noticed a trend in a group of separated and divorced women I’m involved with. These women span
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Circle of Friends

By Susan Lawrence – When my parents had been married for 45 years, my sisters and I planned a surprise party. We decided it would
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The Twenty-Five Year (GL)Itch

By Denise Horner Mitnick – When my husband and I were celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary last January, I developed symptoms of a severe gallbladder
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‘Til Death Do Us Part

By Anita A. Chlipala – By the time I see couples in my office, some of them dislike each other, some wonder if they are
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Longevity – Reality and Perceptions of a Longer Life

By Peter Kruger – A child visits a fairground and spends their pocket money on a carousel ride. They are told from the outset that
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Amahl and the Night Visitors: Offer yourself to someone in need

By Beth Havey – I was ten when I stepped into the spotlight one Christmas night and performed various roles in Gian Carlo Minotti’s Amahl and
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A Valuable Lesson

By Barbara Franzen – Though wanting a large family, God blessed me with one precious child. One child meant one chance to teach those values we
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Heart of Love, Life of Joy

6 areas of your life where you can let love in By Carrie Saba – Are you living with love in your heart or holding on to
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One Small Step for Boomers

By Beth Havey – Feeling overwhelmed? I am. The boomer highway is full of worries and tasks and when I’m on the net or tuning
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Age-Panic thinking about it or revel in the glory?

By Anna Cook – Do you panic thinking about your age or revel in the glory of the golden years? Why do you panic? What
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Boundaries: How to Set and Why you Need Them

By Jane Morrison – The other day I was working with a client, the owner of a massage and wellness center, and she was stressing
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The Divorce Myth

By Shela Dean Boomer – The Baby Boom Generation has the highest percentage of divorce of any demographic, so much so that the term “Grey
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How to Cope with Caregiving – The Friendship Connection

By:  Sherri Snelling – It was recently National Friendship Day which I thought was a good time to talk about the power of friendships when
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Sailing into Midlife Marriage

By Fran Caffey Sandin – The empty nest becomes a test. How strong is our marriage? What have we done so far to keep the
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5 Things I Learned About Being Fabulously Fifty And Loving It!

By Tamara Elizabeth – “The great thing about getting older is that you don’t lose all the other ages you’ve been.”-Madeleine L’Engle You know the
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Beyond Disappointment

By Beverly Lewis – When I was a kid, I loved a game show Monty Hall hosted called “Let’s Make a Deal.” There were always
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Thoughts & Musings on Being 50+

By Barbara Franzen – I don’t know about you, but life has become different as I’ve “matured”, the nice way of saying, we’re older. These
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Looking for Love

By Jackie Silver – Whether you’re already in a loving relationship or looking for love, being in the company of someone special can be very
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Organizing & Life Changes: 10 Suggestions for Organizing through Change

By Sue West – Their daughter is getting married. Her partner was very ill and is coming home. Her business is in its own next
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Do You Have a Bucket List?

By Leona Salazar – I celebrated my 60th birthday this year…and now fall into the 60+ year old category. I figured such an occasion deserved an article
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Being an Older Mom – Triumphs and Tribulations

By Sharon Hurley Hall- By the time my mom was my age I had finished college. My life is very different: my daughter’s just 8
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Cigarettes, Flickers & Smoke Signals

By Vonda Skelton – I hate tobacco smoke. I hate the way it smells, the way it permeates my clothes and hair, and especially the
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College Bound Kids? You’re not alone . . .Part 1

By Jane Dean – What a strange time of year. Summer hasn’t started in The Hague yet vacations are over and families everywhere are preparing
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Aging Healthily, Happily & Youthfully

By Anna Cook – It’s time to move yourself out of any ruts you may have fallen into over the years so you can open
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12 Ways to Be a Family Caregiver’s Best Friend

Supporting Baby Boomers Who Care for Aging Parents By Deborah Cauz, Submitted by http://www.boomertoboomeronline.ca/ – Being a family caregiver, caring for an aging parent, is
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Do You Suffer from Perfect Woman Syndrome?

By Jill Demby Guest – It goes like this. You see a hot pair of jeans. You’re excited. They’re just what you’ve been looking for. You
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A Second Chance

By Deborah Turton – My phone rings, it’s my sister. I have only spoken to her twice in the past 4 years and she does
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Living Life’s Parentheses

“It’s in the unexpected moments where the best things happen” By Nancie Carmichael – Now it’s summer—blessed, long-awaited lazy-hazy days of summer. But if your
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Awaken Your Inner Cowgirl: The Woman You Want To Become

By Joy Silha – Who is the older woman you don’t want to become? I’m guessing she is judgmental, stoic, stuck in her ways and
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Summer Fun with an Aging Loved One

By Trisha Menoni – Now That Summer is Finally Here, It’s a Great Opportunity to Have Some Summer Fun! For an aging loved one, summer
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Instead of enhancing us our stuff can drain us

By Carrie Saba – When was the last time you really looked around your house, office or car? Do you see a bunch of clutter
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Empty Nesting: The bright side of being home alone

By Penelope Lemov – I used to joke that senior year in high school was designed to make parents willing to part with their kids.
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A Caregiving Story of Survival

By Cindy Laverty – Caregiving creeps up on us when we least expect it. We women are busy living our lives; working in careers, caring
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Surround Yourself with Passionate People

Post written by Leo Babauta, Post Shared by Southern New England WOMAN Magazine, http://www.snewoman.com/ Last night I had an amazing dinner with my wife Eva
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Do You See Yourself the Way Others Do?

By Linda Menesez, M. S.W., L.C.S.W.– How do you see yourself? Do you judge yourself harshly – or with acceptance and pride? Does the way
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Starting Over – 5 Tips to Help You on Your Journey

By Lori Latimer – Like many women, I was a wife and a mother most of my adult life. In 2008, my oldest son was
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ELDER CARE A-Z

By Dr. Marion Somers – With so many things to think about, it can be difficult to stay sane and organized throughout the caregiving process.
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Daddy’s Little Girl

By Laura Petherbridge – Father’s Day hasn’t always been an enjoyable experience for me. My parents divorced when I was 8 years old. Before they
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How to Make Your House Grand-kid Friendly


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